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Successful men with young, hot women. Why does this happen?

Successful men work very hard and work very long hours and they enjoy the fruits of their labor. Work is what they know to do, like to do, want to do, and feel empty without it. But, truth be told, many very successful or very focused men go though two or three marriages (I have no clue about very successful or focused women). By the time all is said and done they tend to end up with some young, hot chick on that final marriage. People tend to look down on this type of relationship. Having worked with several small businesses I think I now see how this relationship is mutually beneficial.

Very successful men are busy -- they work all the time -- finding someone that is willing to accept the same responsibilities is necessary. Men want smart women that compete on an intellectual level. The problem is that these women need their men around, to compete on that intellectual level, yet the men are busy making their success. This can only cause frustration and tension in the relationship. If the woman is also very successful and focused on her on topics this issue might be someone moderated. This means there are really only two options: finding a woman who is off fighting her own battle for success or finding someone that accepts the battle as necessary.

This seems to be where the real crux of the situation sits. So many parts of a relationship require both people to be there in nearly equal amounts. I believe this is especially true when children are involved. If the female is tasked with handling, in total, what should be joint responsibilities or she simply needs the other person around (at times it seems for simply entertainment value) for quality time the relationship is destined for failure.

There seem to be only two or three relationships that prevail when the men in their life are totally wrapped up in their work. The first is when the female is also very successful, work driven, or focused. Here the two come together for some small but mutual benefit then go off again to their own thing. A second may occur when the female simply has patience. In this scheme, the female is waiting for, more or less, retirement. If she is lucky, her man wants to retire, is working toward that goal, and will get there by the age of 36 or so. Finally, and the initial thought behind this thread, is that a man finds a female that is interested in the fruits of his labor. She may not be very interested in him, but he can produce, produce he does, and she gets what she wants.

I don't want to make it sound like I think women are shallow, at least not more shallow then any man. Females simply get more of an opportunity to partake Our society is, currently, set up such that men are generally more successful and expected to produce. I can't lie, if I had the opportunity to have an sugar mommy, I'd likely take it.